March 15th, 2025
by Matt Davis
by Matt Davis
Reposting a post that I mentioned in the sermon today from Dane Ortlund that I read back in December. I found this encouraging, convicting, and helpful.
Fifteen questions to consider asking others at church if you find hallway talk hard. Or even if you don't. Not all apply to every relationship; some require a follow-up comment; and some you can't say if the premise embedded in it isn't true. But wouldn't we want to thoughtfully dignify our fellow saints after they've spent a week trudging through this barren merciless world?
1. Did you know I'm glad you're part of this church family?
2. What's something you were happy about this week?
3. How are you doing on the inside?
4. What's something you're hoping God will do for you in days ahead?
5. Is there anything I can pray about right now with you?
6. How can I be a better friend to you?
7. What's something about you I don't know?
8. May I share with you something I'm struggling with, and then would you pray for me?
9. Isn't it a relief we'll be in heaven soon?
10. Did you know I'm a little different, for the better, because you're in my life? May I tell you how?
11. Is there anything in particular that struck you in the text for today's sermon?
12. Wasn't that a glorious song/line we sang today...?
13. Do you have any needs the church may not be aware of?
14. Do you see any particular way I need to grow, at this point in my development?
15. May I tell you something I respect about you?
Photo credit: churchleadership.com
Fifteen questions to consider asking others at church if you find hallway talk hard. Or even if you don't. Not all apply to every relationship; some require a follow-up comment; and some you can't say if the premise embedded in it isn't true. But wouldn't we want to thoughtfully dignify our fellow saints after they've spent a week trudging through this barren merciless world?
1. Did you know I'm glad you're part of this church family?
2. What's something you were happy about this week?
3. How are you doing on the inside?
4. What's something you're hoping God will do for you in days ahead?
5. Is there anything I can pray about right now with you?
6. How can I be a better friend to you?
7. What's something about you I don't know?
8. May I share with you something I'm struggling with, and then would you pray for me?
9. Isn't it a relief we'll be in heaven soon?
10. Did you know I'm a little different, for the better, because you're in my life? May I tell you how?
11. Is there anything in particular that struck you in the text for today's sermon?
12. Wasn't that a glorious song/line we sang today...?
13. Do you have any needs the church may not be aware of?
14. Do you see any particular way I need to grow, at this point in my development?
15. May I tell you something I respect about you?
Photo credit: churchleadership.com
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